MDV 233 · Eugen (Menakhem Yehuda) Grunfeld

Grunfeld gives his official surname and his Yiddish name and patronymic while Lemster checks the spelling and the pronunciation of each.

Grunfeld says he was born in Zău and attended school in Cluj and Bucharest before the war, and that after the war he settled in Cluj for good. Answering Lemster, he names his father, born in Ileanda (?), a merchant who later lived in Petah Tikva in Israel, and his mother Gitl, a housewife. He names his grandparents — a paternal grandfather who was a tailor, a paternal grandmother Gitl and a maternal grandfather named Rosenberg — and explains why the name Gitl occurs on both sides. A cousin in London is mentioned in connection with a family document, and Lemster and the others discuss the Yiddish term for such a relative.

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Grunfeld describes his pious grandparents, the family Passover seder led by his grandfather, and how he learned much from his maternal grandfather. He then answers Lemster's questions about his schooling: three or four years in cheder in Zău, one year in the Talmud Torah in Cluj, and Romanian-language gymnasium in Bucharest. He names the melamed in Zău.

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Asked about his childhood games, Grunfeld recalls being upset on Sabbath afternoons when the other children played while his grandfather made him recite from the Pentateuch. He then explains the difference between cheder in Zău and the Talmud Torah in Cluj, where he began Gemara at nine or ten and studied only a little.

Grunfeld recalls the Passover seder at home, led by his grandfather, with the four questions asked by the child and his younger sister stealing the afikoman. He answers Lemster's questions about special Passover dishes and utensils, stuffed goose and potato foods, and recites parts of Khad Gadyo. He describes the cup for Elijah and the opened door, and mentions playing with nuts at Sukkot with Jewish and non-Jewish children.

Grunfeld says that in Zău non-Jews did not speak Yiddish but that in Maramureș they did, and recalls a Romanian policeman in Tighina who spoke excellent Yiddish. He describes how Romanian peasant women sat outside the Jewish shops on Friday night waiting to count three stars so that the shops could open, and Lemster asks about the term for the peasants. He also mentions the Sabbath goy who lit the fire.

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Grunfeld says about twenty Jewish families lived in Zău, with a synagogue, cheder and mikveh, and he lived there until about the age of ten. He recalls Purim customs: sending gifts between families and going masked as a Romanian peasant child, with short Purim plays and visits to the Romanian teacher. Lemster asks for a Purim song, but Grunfeld says he cannot sing and recalls only a few words.

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Grunfeld describes playing dreydl at Hanukkah and recites a children's parody of the letters on the dreydl. Lemster asks about holiday foods, such as baked goods and potato latkes, and Grunfeld gives local terms and explains that Transylvania is called Zimbergn (Siebenbürgen). He begins to speak about Shavuot.

Grunfeld recalls learning a Shavuot poem as a child, then describes Tisha B'Av customs, when worshippers sat on the floor without shoes in the synagogue. He answers a question about a children's custom with a Romanian word. Asked what else he remembers, he says childhood years are the best and speaks of his failing eyesight and difficulty reading prayers.

Grunfeld names his siblings: three brothers and three sisters in all, with birth years given for some, and one who died at thirteen after his bar mitzvah. One sister has died and one brother lives in Israel (?).

Grunfeld says he is now a pensioner and describes his postwar career as a technician in cellulose and paper, trained at a technical school. He was head of a section with a large workforce under Ceaușescu and worked at the factory for thirty-five years.

Grunfeld answers Lemster's questions about the terms "a good Jew" and the Baal Shem Tov. He says he grew up in a religious home and talks about what he heard of the Ștefănești and Vizhnitz rebbes, as well as Satmar. His mother's brother studied at the Satmar yeshiva as a follower of Rabbi Yoilish, and he says he himself is a Cluj Hasid. He briefly discusses Ashkenazi and Sephardi prayer customs.

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Grunfeld describes Sabbath eve in his grandparents' home, with a grandfather reminding his wife to light the candles, the fish from the local river, gefilte fish, soup and meat with noodles. He recalls the family singing Sabbath songs at the table and kugel on Sabbath day, and says Yiddish was spoken there although he did not study it in school. He also speaks of Yiddish speakers he met in Israel (?).

Grunfeld names the occupations of the Jews in Zău: timber merchants, a butcher shop, a tailor and a shoemaker, and none in hard manual labor. Lemster asks the term for peasants, and the term for mother tongue. He says Yiddish was his mother tongue until the age of ten and he also knows Romanian and Hungarian, but now speaks only those at home.

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Grunfeld says he married in 1949 and speaks Romanian with his wife. Answering Lemster, he says there was one synagogue in Zău but many in Cluj, including small prayer houses in each quarter, artisans' synagogues and a workers' synagogue, and he explains the word quarter (kvartir). He says about eighteen thousand Jews lived in Cluj before the war and about two thousand afterwards, and now about two hundred.

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Grunfeld says he spent the war doing forced labor in Tighina fortress and other places in Romania. He mentions that Cluj Jews were sent elsewhere, some to Transnistria, and that his mother lived in Turda near the Hungarian border during the war, then Hungarian-ruled.

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